Many people adolescence is a period of difficult and full of rebellion. For some people, is a hoax teenage nightmare for the 'career' as their parents. Before you brought into the group, learn some tips in the following formed a harmonious relationship with teenagers.
Do not be surprised if you find that they tend to be emotionally unstable, due to the influence of this hormone in the developing themselves. Please note in educating teenagers is not treating them like small children, because they are not children anymore. However, I also prove adults, but they treat it as they age.
Appropriate and Effective Communication
This is the key to all relationships of parents with teenagers. However busy working to become the main reason for the creation of communication is not appropriate and effective. One side you have to work to meet the needs of one side and the other candidates are leaders who must be educated.
These statements motivator Mario Teguh "how expensive your child so that must be exchanged with the salary that is not how." There are only two options, namely to take time to eliminate some jobs or take advantage of some quality time as possible to communicate with them. Here are some ways to communicate with them:
* As a start, provoked them to open yourself to recount experiences during youth.
* Bring discussions about various things about their lives.
* Be a good listener and're not.
In praise and rowing proportional
Children who grew up with a compliment that will bring enough to go through to the future with optimism. But it is not excessive, as even their personal spoiled. The amount must be balanced with the wig that you provide. compliment them with any little achievement, and they thought when they start deviating even only a few degrees only.
Teenagers are being unique, and therefore treat it that way also unique in their rebuke. One is not reprimand in front of many people that even their own families and use the words good and appropriate.
It is your Role Model They
This is the time where their idol someone, much as possible make yourself as a model and rule their idol. The image formed with good intelligence, which is supported by a qualified, so can answer all their questions. Plus attitudes and behavior that support.
There are no restrictions if young women should only idol mother or vice versa. You can be the idol for your children no matter whatever their gender. This is charged to your intelligence idol they are not proportional so happens on their sexual disorientation.
Apply Discipline
You are their parents, so I firmly with any form of discipline that has been set, but not authoritarian. Application of this discipline, not only in terms of learning but also all aspects of their lives. For example, they can go by the day with the requirement to tell where and with whom and the provisions of the curfew should not be violated.
Be Friends
To get into their world is to become friends and their friends. So harmless, if you become a 'chameleon' that can be changed at any time. Take the time and join their activities ranging from shopping, to the concert music.
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